To Be or Not to Be …
…….Following Fashion Trends?
It’s the second half of February and still winter - dark, dreary, and quiet - nature remains at rest, yet slowly awakens, preparing to bloom. After an indulgent afternoon sipping on a rich cup of coffee (and perhaps sneaking in a chocolate truffle or two), I found myself thoroughly enjoying the glossy pages of two renowned fashion magazines. Yet, as I admired the latest trends, I couldn’t help but question their true validity – how much really applies to me? I’m of average height and weight (though, admittedly, I could ease up on the truffles), slightly older than I appear or feel, with a mischievous sparkle in my eye and a cascade of unruly silvering curls. While I love immersing myself in the world of fashion, I’ve always seen these glossy pages as inspiration rather than strict rules to follow.
Fashion is a fascinating cycle - one moment a style is the height of trendiness, and the next, it’s deemed outdated. But should we feel compelled to follow every new trend in clothing, jewellery, and handbags? Or is there something to be said for forging our own unique style? Let’s explore both perspectives.
The Case for Following Fashion Trends
There’s something undeniably exciting about embracing the latest trends. Fashion reflects the spirit of the times, and wearing current styles can offer a sense of belonging and confidence. When we put on something that’s “in,” we often feel polished, modern, and in sync with the world around us.
Trends also introduce us to new ideas - colours we might not have otherwise considered, materials that feel fresh, or silhouettes that give us a new perspective on dressing. By keeping an eye on what’s trending, we expand our styling horizons and evolve our personal aesthetic. Sometimes, a passing trend can inspire a new signature look.
Furthermore, for fashion enthusiasts, trends offer a chance to explore and have fun. They encourage stepping beyond our comfort zones, even if only for a season. I’ll admit, I sometimes give in to the temptation of a trendy piece, but I typically choose ones with timeless elements that complement my more eclectic wardrobe.
The Argument for Developing Your Own Style
While trends can be fun and confidence-boosting, they aren’t always universally flattering. A bold neon colour may be the highlight of the season, but if it clashes with your natural tones, it won’t do you any favours. Similarly, certain cuts and styles might work beautifully on some body types but not on others. Just because oversized blazers are dominating the runway doesn’t mean they will suit everyone’s proportions. Take flared trousers, for example - I’d love to wear them, but with my short legs and rounded hips, they make me look like a poorly wrapped parcel.
There’s also the matter of authenticity. When you develop your own style, you cultivate a wardrobe that reflects you rather than an ever-changing industry. It ensures longevity - classic, well-chosen pieces can remain stylish for years, while trend-driven pieces often have an expiry date.
Then there’s the financial aspect. Chasing trends can be expensive, as it encourages a cycle of constant purchasing and discarding. Investing in timeless, high-quality items—like a classic blazer, a beautifully crafted handbag or a unique handmade jewellery piece - can be a more sustainable and cost-effective approach.
Trends as Inspiration, Not Rules
After flipping through the magazines, I realized that instead of blindly following trends or dismissing them entirely, the key is balance. Trends can be a great source of inspiration, but they shouldn’t dictate our entire wardrobe. If burnt orange is the colour of the season but doesn’t flatter you, try incorporating it in small accents - perhaps in a handbag, a pair of earrings, or a scarf - rather than making it the centrepiece of your outfit.
Likewise, personalizing trends is key. If an oversized silhouette isn’t your thing, opt for a more tailored version of the look. If chunky statement jewellery is in, but feels overwhelming, go with your gut and choose a smaller, refined interpretation.
The Joy of Rejuvenating and Upcycling
One of the best ways to remain stylish without being a slave to trends is to breathe new life into what you already own. A beloved handbag can be refreshed with a silk scarf tied to the handle, a simple brooch can add flair to a classic blazer, and jewellery pieces can be layered or repurposed for a fresh effect.
Upcycling and creative styling not only give your cherished pieces a longer lifespan but also contribute to a more eco-conscious approach to fashion. Instead of feeling the need to discard and replace, why not embrace the art of reinvention?
In summary, fashion should be an extension of who we are - not a set of rigid rules to follow. Trends can be a wonderful guide, but they shouldn’t override personal style and comfort. Instead of feeling pressured to conform, take what resonates with you, adapt it to your own aesthetic, and make it yours. After all, confidence comes not from wearing what’s trendy, but from wearing what makes you feel fabulous and truly you.
How Style trumps Trend
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