Believe in Your Own Style…
As an artisan jewellery designer and maker, I often find myself reflecting on the beauty of individuality in the way in which we express ourselves through the fashion we wear and how we choose our accessories. Every single one of us has a unique essence that deserves to be unleashed and allowed to shine, yet, so often, we find ourselves hiding in the shadows, hesitant to stray from the trends we see and hear about.
I’m a passionate advocate for stepping away from those fleeting trends and embarking on a journey to discover your own style. Doing so not only allows you to embrace your individuality but also empowers you to express it fully. Today, I’d like to share some thoughts on why believing in your own style is so important—and how it can transform your wardrobe while giving you a meaningful boost in confidence.
Your Style is Your Personal Signature
What is style? At its core, style is how an individual expresses themselves through their aesthetic choices - be it clothing, accessories, hairstyles, or the way everything comes together. Style isn’t about chasing the latest runway trends or mimicking what you see in fashion magazines; it’s about what truly resonates with YOU.
The pieces you choose to wear should reflect your personality, passions, and story. Your style is more than just a look - it’s a visual signature, as distinctive and unique as your fingerprint.
I’d like to share an experience that perfectly illustrates what I mean. Last night I went out with two girlfriends for our annual pre-Christmas dinner. One of them recently retired from her day job to pursue life as a fulltime artist. She has always had a stylish, intriguing and a slightly mischievous flair. But when she took her coat off at the restaurant I stopped mid-sentence captivated by the transformation before me. She was breathtaking. She wore an avantgarde black taffeta zip-up dress with an oversized, deconstructed collar, paired with opaque tights, classic Doc Martens and a bold statement necklace, that resembled baubles and tinsel draped elegantly across her collarbones. THAT’S STYLE – fearless, expressive and undeniable her. Bring on Christmas!
Fashion trends are fleeting by design. Is it really worth investing in what’s “in” today, only to find that it outdated by the next season? Here’s the thing: blindly following trends can leave you feeling out of sync and inauthentic, especially when those trends don’t align with your own taste. I believe that the focus should be on prioritising what feels right for you and thereby creating a timeless look that never goes out of style, because it’s uniquely YOURS.
And remember, finding your personal style is a journey of experimentation. Try different silhouettes, play around with colours and textures and let yourself explore the things that truly speak to you. Allow yourself the freedom to discover what feels right without giving in to pressures of “fitting in”. Once you’ve found your own style and wear something that genuinely resonates with you, it’s pure magic – you’ll feel comfortable in your own skin and radiate confidence. And that it what sets you apart, not the label on your clothes or the price tag on your jewellery.
As we approach the close of 2024, I’d like to share a thought for the year ahead. Why not set a goal for 2025 to celebrate the joy of being authentically you. Wear what makes you feel amazing, and choose pieces that speak to your heart, not just to your wardrobe. In a world that frequently pushes us to conform, celebrating your own unique style is a bold statement: This is who I am, and I love it. Be radiant, stay true to yourself, and wear your confidence like the priceless accessory that it is.
